It
would be apt if I say my life was so smooth until I made, rather not made that
big decision in my life! For those who think that decision was falling in love
–Please give it a break :p . That big
decision I mentioned was the answer to the question What’s next after 12th?
Passing my board exams with flying colors I voted for society’s opinion. And
yeah society did win and I ended up opting for engineering in Electronics and
Communication – the one which is said to be the course for the creamy layers (as told by my H.O.D :p)!
Still Lady Luck gave me another opportunity and I nailed it with a University
rank. I was offered with a job (yes,
you are guessing it right- the I.T based job it is) even before I could sail
through my final exams. I’m still clinging on to the same job. I would not say I have been through all this
without my hard work, but what I realise now is I have failed to work hard
enough to get what I really needed. Slowly I am starting to question myself if
this is want I really want in life?! I spent four years banging CROs and
digital circuits in electronics laboratory, manipulating the sine and cosine
waveforms while all I do post my graduation is to bang my head to decode the
software codes which god knows who created! And it seems like I am doing
justice to neither.
This
remains the situation for majority of the present generation, who ended up being
lucky enough to get placed through campus recruitment. Being blind folded by
society one worries about how and where one must be rather than how and where
one want oneself to be. Going forward I am afraid people will no longer have the need for
asking what one do for their living for the only profession will be I.T based .
Now don’t take me all wrong. For those who are in love with this job – good for
you but I’m worried about the other half because that’s where I exactly belong.
I understand computers have been a great boon and definitely made life an easy
win for especially the ones who pass out of college. But what one must not
forget is that how it silently kills your quest of discovering what you truly
are. From experience I could say every software professional wears a different
hat during their post office hours – there are teachers, writers, creators and
lots more who are longing to permanently tear off the software mask and make a
difference in their life.
There is
popular Facebook post “In India people first become engineers and then wonder what to
do in life!” and I am afraid as this is absolutely true! Kind advice to the parents, please start
trusting your child’s capability. In today’s generation parents are more afraid
to face their children failure than the children themselves. It is good that
they don’t want their children to struggle like the way they did, but this
attitude must not be a hindrance for their child’s development.
To all the
parents who think, their child getting placed during final year of college is
the biggest achievement on earth, trust me that might end up as the only
achievement you child would ever taste. There is that other category which
feels proud for sending their children abroad for that kid’s education! The kid will be all happy at first excited
about the next phase of their life. It might be good at the beginning, great to
feel that with their first salary they could purchase a costly android that is
recently out in the market, but remember sooner or later this enthusiasm will
be drained out and so will the kids!
Prepare your
kids to work towards figuring out solution to the enigma of life by themselves
and five or ten years from now you can find them satisfied and pleased to
settle for what they like even if it is going to be the same that they
currently do for it will be their life decision and not something that is
thrust upon them. So, friends those who are not interested in what you do, gear
up and gather the strength to do what you like to do. Let us take that one step
forward and be the change we want the society to be!
Let
us pen down our own history! Take a tour around the roads less travelled- Bon
Voyage! Who knows we may even meet :)
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